Sharp Dressed Man: The Basics of a Man's Suit Ensemble

 

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The truth is that I’ve been promising/threatening to write this blog for a while but I’ve procrastinated.  There is so much I want to say but couldn’t figure out how to focus my thoughts.  However after recently suit shopping with a friend I decided to stick to the ins-and-outs of a proper suit.  “What’s the big deal”, you say?  “Men’s business attire is pretty straight forward”, you say?  Well, did you ever see a grown man wearing a suit so big that you wonder if he shrank?  Or a tie so short you wonder if he’s channeling Jackie Gleason or Bozo the Clown?  The dos and don’ts of men’s business attire have been established over centuries and, while subject somewhat to trend, most of the rules are pretty clear-cut.  I will do my best to give you the "Cliff Notes" version of those rules and to keep it short and to the point (well, to the point anyway), I’ll stick to bullet points.

First… the basic, basics of getting dressed

-          Your belt and shoes should be the same color

-          Your socks should be the same color as your pants

-          Your tie, when tied, should end at the middle of your belt buckle

-          When wearing your jacket, button as follows:

  • 3 button suit: top button = sometimes, middle button = always, bottom button = never
  • 2 button suit: top button = always, bottom button = never
  • 1 button suit: button = always

-          Your shirt sleeve cuff to extend ½” past your jacket sleeve

-          Undershirt is a must

-          Shirt should be ironed and shoes should be polished

-           To freshen up your suit hang it in the bathroom while you shower and the steam should loosen any wrinkles

Second… fit

Suit jacket – there are so many things that go into a properly fit suit jacket.  This is just a sampling of some of the key points to look for.

-          creases running horizontally between the shoulders when you’re standing still mean the jacket is too tight

-          vertical creases running down the center of the back when standing still indicate that the jacket is too big

-          if the back neck of the suit is buckling away from the body then it’s too big and should be altered

-          the jacket should be long enough to cover the seat of your pants  (on this point there is much discussion and most people will tell you that the length of the jacket is in relation to your arms.  I disagree with this method since not everyone’s arms are proportional to their body and can end up making the suit seem poorly balanced.)

-          the sleeves should be ½” past your wrist bone, or ½” shorter than the length of your shirt sleeves, which leads me to…

Dress shirt – in my humble opinion the #1 biggest mistake made by American men.  Why is it necessary to be swimming in a shirt?  Why?  But I digress…

Shirts are measured by neck width and sleeve length.  Here’s how you to determine your size, you’ll need a tape measure.  Don’t have one?  Here is a printable one from eBay: http://pages.ebay.com/sizing/tapeMeasure.pdf?ssPageName=csameasuring

-          Neck width – measure around the neck just beneath the Adam’s apple, add ½” and there ya go.

-          Sleeve length – with arms comfortably at sides, measure from the center of your spine where it meets your neck, along the shoulder and down the arm to your wrist bone and add 1”.  That’s your sleeve length. If it comes out in between sizes then round up.

-          The shoulder seam of the shirt should align with your actual shoulder, not past it. 

-          For the body of the shirt your “off the rack” choices are limited unfortunately, but generally if you are a thin guy or have an athletic build then look for shirts that say “fitted” or “tailored”.

-          A barrel cuff is the regular button cuff and the French cuff requires a cuff link.  This is purely a matter of personal taste. 

I think that’s enough for now.  In the next entry I’ll cover pants, shoes, accessories etc.  Here’s a hint of things to come… yes, the pants should be flat front!

Is this too much information?  Not enough information?  Click “Leave a comment” and let me know before the next installment.  Thanks!!

"Stall"ing

Last Thursday I was at a business networking event by Corey Perlman of eBoot Camp (www.ebootcamp.com... check it out!) and during a short break I made a visit to the ladies' room.  From the stall next to me I heard a woman say, "I know what I want for Christmas."   Curiosity peaked, I waited for a reply. "What?" her friend responded.

"A belt," she answered, "mine is falling apart."

From another stall I heard a woman say, "Christmas is an awfully long time to wait for a belt."   (I couldn’t agree more.)

To this the young woman replied, "I'm too lazy to get it myself."

While this little bathroom exchange may have seemed insignificant to the other ladies in the room, it made a bell go off in my head.  It occurred to me that maybe not everyone knows that there is such a thing as a personal stylist, or maybe they think it's only for the rich and famous.  Not so! 

There are many terms out there that all refer to pretty much the same thing: personal stylist, wardrobe consultant, image consultant, fashion stylist, and more.  However generally speaking a good personal style consultant (see there’s another one!)  offers many different services and can usually tailor those services to meet your needs and budget.  Here is what they can do for you:

  • Clean out your closet

"One day I'm gonna wear it!"  No you're not.  It's just taking up space in your closet and mocking you every time you look at it.  Your very own wardrobe consultant will help you let go of items that take up space and bring you down.

  • Define your style

Variety is the spice of life.  A good personal (emphasis on the “personal”) stylist should help you define a style that lets people get a sense of your personality through your appearance.  I would never want my clients to look like clones; I want each of them to feel their individual best.

  • Build a functional wardrobe

By functional I mean that your clothing and accessories should be flattering, versatile and meet the needs of your lifestyle.  If your work environment is business casual do you really need 5 suits?  No.  Your consultant should help you identify the items you need to meet the needs of your life as well as the proper silhouettes and colors to most accentuate your attributes.

  • Personal shopping

Some people love shopping, some people would rather pull their toenails out with tweezers.  (At least that’s how one of my clients put it when we first met.)  A personal stylist can either serve as training wheels by going shopping with you and teaching you how to shop for the best items for you.  Or they can be a huge time saver and bring items to you at your convenience.  For example, the young woman in the bathroom really needn’t wait another 6 months for a belt when she can have options, all her size and flattering to her figure, brought right to her.

As far as cost goes, there are different rates out there but most style consultants charge by the hour, which makes it easy to stay to a budget.  Don’t be afraid to tell your consultant that you only want a certain number of hours and ask them to define what can be accomplished in that time frame.  I’ve lost potential clients because the time they needed was longer than what they were willing to spend, but I would rather be honest than have them go over budget or not achieve their goals.  And just for the record, in case you watch the show, some of us are much nicer than Stacy and Clinton on “What Not to Wear”! 

Got questions?  Clothing conundrums?  Style emergencies?  Please comment on my blog or email me at: Jodi@stylesuccess.net

Thanks for reading!